Ending a marriage can be a stressful event even when a couple agrees to do so in an amicable manner. New Hampshire residents who attempt to leave an abusive spouse may find that they put their life in danger by doing so. Furthermore, they may have to decide whether they want to take their children with them when they leave. In some cases, this may be a good idea as it prevents an abusive spouse from using them as a bargaining tool.

In addition, it may be difficult for a parent to explain to a judge why he or she chose to leave a child with someone with a history of engaging in domestic violence. It is worth noting that a spouse who has physically or otherwise abused a spouse may still receive custody or visitation rights to a child. Therefore, a victim may have contact with a former spouse even after obtaining a divorce.

However, a judge will likely only allow for supervised visitation in cases where domestic violence has occurred. Those who have been victims of spousal abuse are encouraged to ask their friends or family members for help leaving their partners. Counselors and support groups may also be valuable resources for those who are looking to move forward with their lives.

If an individual is a victim of domestic violence, it may influence the process of dissolving a marriage. For instance, it may be necessary to avoid mediation and go straight to a divorce trial as it may not be safe for a victim to be in close contact with his or her abuser. Those who have physically or otherwise abused their spouses may have their parental rights terminated. An attorney may help an abuse victim learn more about his or her rights.