When parents separate, emotions can run high. Sometimes, one parent may speak badly about the other or try to turn the child against them. This behavior is called parental alienation, and New Hampshire courts take it seriously.
Understanding parental alienation
Parental alienation happens when one parent tries to damage the child’s relationship with the other parent. It can involve negative comments, false accusations, or limiting contact. The goal is often to make the child reject the other parent, even when that parent hasn’t done anything wrong.
New Hampshire courts want both parents involved in a child’s life unless there’s a reason to limit one parent’s role. If a parent tries to interfere with that relationship, it can affect custody decisions. Judges may see this behavior as harmful to the child’s emotional well-being.
How courts recognize alienation
Judges look for patterns, not just isolated incidents. A child refusing contact without a clear reason may raise concerns. If a parent discourages communication, blocks visits, or blames the other parent unfairly, it could signal alienation. The court might bring in professionals like therapists to help evaluate the situation.
Courts aim to act in the child’s best interest. If they believe a parent is causing alienation, they might change the custody arrangement. This could mean more time with the other parent or even a shift in primary residence.
Preventing and responding to alienation
To avoid accusations of alienation, speak respectfully about the other parent in front of your child. Encourage a positive relationship, even if you’re upset. If you’re concerned the other parent is alienating your child, keep records. Save messages, note changes in behavior, and speak to a counselor if needed.
Addressing alienation early can help preserve your relationship with your child. The court wants to see that both parents are working together for the child’s well-being.
Putting your child first
Courts care most about your child’s emotional health. If one parent tries to turn the child against the other, it can lead to serious legal consequences. By focusing on cooperation and respect, you protect your child and your time together.
